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Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by 11visionary11

11visionary11 — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 11:35:27 +0000

True, after a week of dating my boyfriend said he was going to marry me At the time I wasnt sure if it was romantic or creepy! We are soulmates and have been together 8 yrs, married for 6:)

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by 11visionary11

11visionary11 — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 10:49:00 +0000

If your already living together and want to get married, nothing will change if you already want to stay together forever. If your not sure if you want to spend your life with this person, and get married bc its “time” or “we are already living together” then your marrige will fail.

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by rosereddoll

rosereddoll — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 10:45:52 +0000

I HATE when people say “statistically, moving in will hurt your relationship”. I know the studies he’s talking about and they’re misleading! If you’re using cohabiting as a TEST to see if you COULD get married, THEN it will hurt your relationship. If you’re using it as a STEP to get married or are planning to get married, then it HELPS your relationship. It’s generally not a good idea to move in with anybody “to get to know them better”. ^_^ That should have already been accomplished!

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by themightycelestial

themightycelestial — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 10:08:03 +0000

The title of this thread is an unanswerable question.
Each relationship is a unique experience shared by two people.
It’s not the living together will affect the relationship,
it’s the individual thoughts, expectations & baggage of those involved that will affect the relationship.
Generalizing a question like this only produces a host of subjective responses that’s impossible to come to an over-all conclusion. Just take a look at all the reponses to this thread.

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by rainbowdaisies

rainbowdaisies — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 09:48:40 +0000

it’s quite obvious why someone is single

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by bboicrazy8

bboicrazy8 — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 09:31:30 +0000

I like what the guy with glasses had to say.

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by GilbertsonDerick

GilbertsonDerick — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 08:45:18 +0000

Living together will only hurt your relationship when your relationship is already in the shits to begin with.

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by meka4996

meka4996 — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 08:05:48 +0000

just have sex first, forget the commitment, forget the stability, forget the trust… live for the day, for tomorrow, we die…

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by lavellove1

lavellove1 — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 07:21:02 +0000

sorry but your wrong living with someone before your married to them shows that you really dont believe in the relationship enough to solidify it.Only one couple in five who lives together before marriage actually ends up getting married. Evidence shows that, instead of taking relationship roles similar to marriage, couples just living together do not communicate or work through problems as well.

Comment on Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship? by lavellove1

lavellove1 — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 06:45:12 +0000

This is generally because there is a lack of total commitment and they are not as comfortable expressing dislikes or problems for fear the relationship will disintegrate. The stress either becomes too much and they separate or they go ahead and get married.